Trans Decision Making is More Complex

I've had a medical problem for the last five years. It's an effect of having diabetes for 40 years. It leaves me wanting to be near a city with a medical complex.

But I live out in the sticks. Hillbilly country. God, guns, guts.

So I drive to my doctors. Sometimes it's a two-hour drive.

I like where I live. I like my doctors. So I live with the drive.

This last week my driving has been sloppy. I wonder if my driving days are about to be over. It really screws my decision to live here if I can't reliably drive.

I am invited to Virginia, where I have family but it is not a trans-friendly state. I really don't want to move into those politics.

Trans decision making is more complex.