Movies about Late Life Gay Bloomers
These are movies I've found useful about people discovering (or recognizing) their homosexuality late in life - the tragic Late Bloomer.
Far From Heaven involves interlocking forbidden relationships. The husband has been concealing his homosexuality, but it's uncovered unintentionally during an arrest, and another time when the wife surprises him at the office. This is a great movie. All the major characters end up the worse for their experience and discovery.
I think there's hidden meanings in the colors used for different scenes, and also for the titles on movie marquees seen during the film.